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Soothe Your Inner Busy, Hurry, and Worry

June 3, 2022 by Mary Madsen-Heskin Leave a Comment

Some of use live in a busy, hurried, and worry-filled world. I have some rough news about this “world” that you may not want to hear. But I am ripping off the bandage on this one: Most likely we have created that world through our thoughts and perceptions. It’s usually in our own minds that […]

Filed Under: affirmations, Anxiety, Change, Coaching, Counseling, Depression, Inspiration, Issues for Women, self-love, self-talk, Stress Tagged With: freedom from negative emotions, inner critic, inner voice, negative emotions, negative thoughts, reducing stress, self-love, stress, unrealistic expectations

4 Tips for Transforming Negative Self-Talk

April 29, 2022 by Mary Madsen-Heskin Leave a Comment

The Worrier, Inner Critic, Victim, and Inner Perfectionist* show up in our heads all the time. These mental bullies show up to tell us: You are doing it wrong. You are flawed. You are not enough. We need to kick these freeloaders out of our minds. Their messages send us spiraling into difficult and dark […]

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Tips for Dissolving Fear with Love

March 15, 2022 by Mary Madsen-Heskin Leave a Comment

Typically, in Chicagoland there is an unpredictable period between Winter ending and Spring beginning. The temps warm up enough to melt snow and ice and for men to wear shorts and hoodies to stores and women ditch their winter parkas. We get overly confident that Winter is done. Quickly the temperature plummets and it freezes […]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Change, Coaching, Counseling, Fear, Gratitude, Healing, Issues for Women, self-love Tagged With: action, affirmations, change, fear, inspired action, love, self care, self-love

Increasing Suicide Awareness and Prevention

January 27, 2022 by Mary Madsen-Heskin Leave a Comment

Today I will have a conversation with my kids about suicide. Recently, suicide has touched our local community as it has with so many communities around the country. I know this conversation will be stressful. Suicide is stressful. When I was in grad school, professor after professor said to us, you MUST ask new clients […]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Depression, Issues for Women, LGBTQ, suicide prevention Tagged With: depression, helping family with depression, LBGT suicide, Suicide, suicide awareness, suicide prevention, teen suicide

Meditation with Fresh Eyes

November 3, 2021 by Mary Madsen-Heskin Leave a Comment

I have been practicing this new thing. Well, not an actual new concept to myself or the world. But new because I am practicing it with fresh eyes. After I finish my meditation, I have been journaling. (That part isn’t new.) Not about hopes and desires. Not about dreams and wishes. Not about intentions and […]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Change, Gratitude, Healing, Inspiration, meditation, Self-care, self-love Tagged With: anxiety, healing, inspiration, journaling, meditation, personal growth, self care, stress management